Why Do Men Find Women With Larger Eyes Attractive?
According to studies done, research has shown that men generally find larger eyes on women more attractive. This has lead to a growing trend (especially in Asia) for many women to use cosmetics and contact lenses with larger limbal rings to give the illusion of larger eyes. Some have even done this permanently through cosmetic surgery.
So why do men find larger eyes attractive?
There seems to be two separate reasons why larger eyes on a female are more attractive. The first is that larger eyes (along with fuller lips, bigger breasts and smaller chins) is a sign of higher levels of estrogen. Women that have higher levels of estrogen will be more successful and have an easier time conceiving than women with lower levels. This means that women with larger eyes will be seen as a better ‘mate’.
The second reason is that large eyes are a neotenous feature.
A neotenous feature is a characteristic of youth shared by babies and children that humans evolved to retain so they could attract quality mates with “protective and nurturing impulses” which would be more likely to help raise their offspring and raise reproductive success. Since human eyes do not grow in size during development as much as the rest of the body, the size of the eye relative to the face decreases as we grow. This means that babies have relatively large eyes compared to older children and adults. As a consequence, people who have large eyes are often perceived to be younger than they really are. Since perceived youth of a mate is also a sign of fertility, men tend to prefer women with neotenous features, like large eyes.
However, this isn’t saying that men want to mate with babies and small children – that would be incredibly maladaptive because they are not fecund. So, then, why do males usually prefer women who, in essence, look like babies?
Sexual Selection
It’s thanks to something that happens in evolution called Fisherian runaway selection. Fisherian selection suggests that, when one sex prefers mates with certain genetic traits, then, through the process of sexual selection, the other sex will come to possess the trait in increasingly exaggerated forms.
The process is called “runaway” because over time, it would cause the development of greater preference and more pronounced traits, until the costs of producing the trait balance the reproductive benefit of possessing it. The peacock’s tail is a perfect example of this. Its tail requires a great deal of energy to grow and maintain, it reduces the bird’s agility, and increases the animal’s visibility to predators. Yet, it has evolved which indicates that peacocks with longer tails have some advantage.
This same process occurs with men’s preference for women with neotenous features.
Bonus Facts:
- By the age of 7 years old our eyes are fully developed and are physiologically the same as adult’s eyes.
- You blink 15,000 times each day (and by reading this, you were very likely made aware of your own blinking)
- Type 2 diabetes is commonly discovered during an eye test as it can be seen as tiny hemorrhages from leaking blood vessels at the back of your eye.




















I am a guy and I disagree. I like my women to look like grown women – not girls. i don’t need a female to look like a baby, isn’t this, um…pedaphilia? what’s wrong with an interesting sexy attractive women, with cheekbones and a formed face instead of a puffy round baby face? I am stictly hetero, here,I just am not attracted to women with little girl features. I don’t find them sexual, instead my instints say “stay away.” Be nurtering, perhaps, but not sexual. Please, lets’ do away with all the baby faced girlson movies and commercials posing as “women” because you think it’s what us men want.
The point is that a lot of characteristics of babies overlap with characteristics of femininity. Soft hairless skin, big eyes, rounded facial features. If someone who is without a doubt a grown woman has cute features, it means praise God she doesn’t have old matronly features! A couple I find repulsive are Matthew Broderick and Sarah Jessica Parker, because she has this long UN-cute therefore UN-feminine face, and he has a little-boy face. Now reverse the scenario, and give the man a rough aged appearance and the woman a little-girl face and the situation rocks!
You may say “stop” because it’s not what YOU want, but some people can’t help it. I was born with naturally big brown eyes, a round face and full lips and have had men after me. I cant do anything about it even though I hate how I look.
You’re right. There are very beautiful women who does not have big eyes. Big eyes can be attractive but small eyes can be attractive with the right facial features which applies to big eyes as well. We’ll say ‘Her eyes are pretty.’ Why do Asian women have to do that when it suits them and they look completely fine? They look classic with their slanting eyes which is also natural. The large eyes and full lips do look good which is probably why it attracts. These features can beautify a face in a sweet way but small eyes and small lips can also look very beautiful in a beautiful face. Maybe the mating thing works as well. I don’t think people are only attracted to one type of beauty. Some females with small eyes, lips which I’ve seen where one of the most beautiful. They also look sweet and innocent like the pretty Chinese. Sometimes I think it’s because the average woman with big eyes may look better than the ones with small eyes. Or because they are not noticed even when the person is pretty. However both big and small eyes can be very pretty.
I disagree with the above comment. Why does everything come down “must be a pervert” attitude? First time I even realized I was attracted to large eyes was watching The new Startrek movie. The Alien humanoid attending to James Kirk’s mother in the beginning had huge eyes and they blew me away lol. I just watched “In Time” and they way Amanda Seyfried was made up accentuated her beautiful large eyes.
Girls with big eyes can’t hide what they are feeling, haha I think that makes things interesting, I don’t have a preference though, but I do tend to notice girls with bigger eyes more.
I agree with this article to some extent. I notice chicks with larger eyes because they stand out more; if they are attractive that is a plus. However, i do also notice women with small eyes as well due to the whole “seductive” look. I guess subconsciously though, i am more drawn to women with larger eyes because you can see everything in their eyes and it does tend to look more feminine and soft. The only problem Ive experienced when dating a women with larger eyes is the fact that they seem to be good at lying. They have that innocent look to them so when they lie its hard to tell. So they may look all cute and innocent “wife material” but at the same time you have to watch your back because they’re good liars.
I am in a relationship, a successful one at this time and he always talks about my eyes. He says they are big but in a pretty way. I thought he was saying I looked like a freak under the table. As it turns out, modeling agencies prefer larger eyes also, because even to those men and women it is a “turn on” too. No instead of thinking I looked like an alien I feel pretty!!!
I have always been ashamed of my eyes in grade school boys teased me all the time about them and as I got older, people always told me how pretty my eyes were. I didn’t believe it for a long time. I have a male friend who always talks about my eyes and tonight he said something about them. So, I decided to Google people with large eyes and found this web page. I am glad I did and people are always shocked about my age and now I know why! I am very very happy!!
Wow, Pouch Edwards, you clearly suffer to understand the defining characteristics of neurology and how human instincts work and function. Declaring pedophilia on being attracted to such features is calling to attention something that is so utterly slight and insurmountable it deserves no mention or carries any weight in a conversation or argument. It bears nothing.
Funny how I ran into this. Big eyes are a gift! For the longest growing up, I thought my eyes were froggy, but my eyes are my biggest compliment now as an adult. My mate teases me, but it’s what keeps him staring at me. I love my big almond eyes!
Froggy? That’s funny. My eyes are so big that I’m often called a raccoon. It’s 100 times worse when my mascara runs.
froggy isnt even close (/.\) ive been called bugsy because supposedly my eyes are as big as the gunie pigs eyes from the movie bedtime stories (/.\)
Geeze… Thanks to my dad for his large eyes. When I was in high school, the male classmates always called me an owl. But when I got to college, people said my large dark brown eyes were so expressive. :)
Well… Iُm an Asian girl who has huge eyes! Iُm happy with the way I am and I think big eyes makes girls more attractive. Sexiest woman alive (Mila Kunis!) has big eyes…Miss world (Aishwarya Rai!) has big eyes either… So, we can say having big eyes is really good!!!!!!!
Asian girls with big eyes are super cute! They’re kawaii!
You may be right. Men love women with big eyes. They always ask one another – have you noticed her eyes? Interesting and true factor.